The first was the Ace of spades. That meant eleven minutes of corner time for her bottom to cool. Jaime knew that wasn’t very much time. His spankings always stayed with her for a while. She shook as she drew the next card. She desperately hoped for a six of hearts. But, no, it couldn’t be that. It was the Ace of diamonds. The thought of eleven swats with the strap, on top of her paddled bottom, started he sobs all over. We live in a culture that doesn't value stillness, patience or the virtue of just Being. But like many things tossed aside by the frenetic, media-driven culture we live in, stillness is necessary to keep us in balance. But with corner time, I can't "stop." I'm there till my partner tells me I can go, period. (Why? See "Why Do I Obey.") So I can't bail out when I get restless or bored or fidgety. I have to stay and see it through. In the beginning of our arrangement with our daughter, we were very much focused on correcting those aspects of Melanie’s behavior and attitude with which we were very familiar. So she found herself regularly taking a trip over my lap or her father’s knee until she learned to adjust. In those early weeks and months consistency was the key – and every single one of those spankings helped Melanie to achieve the correction in her attitude and conduct that we all desired. The fifteen swats were delivered expertly. They left her bottom glowing with the heat that a disobedient lady should feel on her bottom. She was sobbing and saying how sorry she was when he finished. He helped her up and held her close for a second then helped her to the corner.

Hi everyone! I’m Mrs B_ and I am proud to be both Melanie’s mom and her disciplinarian. She has been asking me for a while to write a column for her blog, so that I can share my thoughts and ideas, especially on the parental discipline of daughters aged 18 and over. Melanie’s viewpoint comes across in her choice of pictures and especially in her captions and descriptions. I think she does this very well – I know that she puts a lot of thought into each of the images and she will often ask for my opinion before she posts them here. I shall be sharing my own thinking, from the viewpoint of disciplinarian, which I hope might be of some interest to readers. I shall be giving details of the ‘arrangement’ which we have in our home. I shall try to set out the philosophy behind it and also give plenty of detail on the practical side of spanking and other elements of our disciplinary code. Please do feel free to join in the discussion by posting your on topic comments right here in Disciplinarians Corner and I shall be delighted to answer any questions you might have on Discipline and the Modern Miss! When I was in my 20s I moved in with a women 12 years my senior. She was quite beautiful and sophisticated. I was living in her house and shortly aster moving in she began to discuss “rules of the house.” I was attracted to her and needed a place to stay so I listened and when she first said violations would be met with swift stern punishment. I felt a strange sense of titillation and I thought ok I will go along. She asked if I had been spanked by my mom growing up and when I said no, she said it showed. She lived in a duplex she shared with her aging mother and when she thought I hadn’t shown her mother the proper degree of respect she scolded me and listed a number of infractions that she deemed worthy of correction. After Weekly Review, Melanie has fifteen minutes corner-time – standing on her little ‘naughty step’ out in the hall with her hands on her head and facing the mirror – to reflect on what she has got wrong in the previous week and to resolve to do better in the week ahead.

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No, Sir.”The dull scratch of a chair filled the room. Heavy footsteps vibrated through the floorboards. For additional embarrassment/complexity for "time out" or corner time, consider a brown paper bag over his head, or a dunce's cap. This punishment requires the sub to spend a defined period of time in a room without being allowed to go out. It can also be combined with other ways of domestic discipline punishment. Sending to bed early As Melanie’s mom, I am pretty much in charge of discipline on a day to day basis. But it was important to us as a couple that parental responsibility for our daughter was shared. So that Melanie could see clearly that both Mom and Dad were completely in accord when it came to disciplinary matters. So it was important that her father had a clearly defined role, even though he was busy with work for most of the week. He needs to be able to get close to the corner and should not have to move anything to get there, as things occupying "his" corner get in the way and detract from the act of getting into it.

I was familiar with spankings, I was spanked since I was a little girl, but mostly by female persons: by my mother, by my aunt, by my babysitter, by the nuns in the catholic school I intended. Corner time could be enhanced with the use of diapers for childishbehaviour Hubby is sent to the corner to stand naked while waiting for his Wife to arrive and scold him and demand an apology. She tells him that he should dress his age, and tosses him a pair of disposable diapers to wear around the house for the rest of the day. To raise the level ofembarrassment, he will wear them until he needs changing by his Wife. Cornertime: During this time, Young Lady, you will have your hands either behind head, or down at your side, standing tightly facing the corner like the naughty well spanked little girl that you are. Your beautiful sore red bottom will still be completely exposed, Little Miss High and Mighty, and you will not be permitted to ask me any questions, nor will you be allowed to rub your stinging red bottom any more. You will feel me standing behind you, at times, pulling your hair away from your ears so that I might whisper terms of endearment expressing just how lovely you look in this undignified, unsophisticated situation. If, however, you have been slow to obey or haven’t taken your spanking well, then I will ask you to draw two mare cards. The first will tell us how many minutes of corner time there will be between spankings and the second card will determine the implement and number of swats for the next spanking in the same way that it was done for the first spanking. Summer is the time when many 18+ girls come home from college. So it is a happy time, but can also be a challenging one for many parents. Their daughter has been living away from home for an extended period and so has learned to think differently about many things. Of course this is as it should be, but the summer vacation provides a great opportunity for parents to assess their daughter’s attitude and behavior. So what better time to discuss the implementation of a domestic disciplinary code for the summer months.Caught in the act for which you need Discipline, be it, misbehaving in one or more ways. This might range, Little Miss Naughty Lady, from just being extremely sassy to being haughty and/arrogant, to lying to me. Speeding and running red lights while driving, are some of the driving offenses for which you will be spanked. I am a patient man, Young Lady, but, when you are caught misbehaving, and you will be, and you have tested my limits, then it is time for me to stop your foolish nonsense and time for you to be taken over my knees and soundly spanked. The kind of a spanking that you will not soon forget! Jacob grabbed her chin and turned her face so she couldn’t avert his gaze. “Eyes on me, young lady. Start again.” You couldcut eye holes in a brown paper bag (or not of course, lol) and write a message on the bag as to why the husband is being punished.

When considering a disciplinary regime for 18+ sons and daughters still living in the family home, many parents (quite understandably) think of spanking as a short-term response to negative behaviors. And indeed spankings can and do work in that way and much more effectively than other forms of discipline. But rather than thinking in terms of such short-term correction, it is much better to take a longer view. In this way, parental discipline can become a much more positive experience for everyone. minutes is about the minimum amount of time for me to get to this place and stay there long enough to feel the benefits. As with meditation, though, the longer I stay, the more I feel the benefits (up to a point, I suppose, though I haven't found that point yet). By the time my partner says my corner time is up, I feel like I've just had a really good yoga session. He tells me that when I come to him from the corner, I look especially beautiful and relaxed. And that's how I feel, too.So it is most important for parents who wish to take their 18 year old daughters in hand in this way, to be absolutely consistent from day one. A very firm hand is most definitely required and a readiness to apply that firm hand – (and indeed the hairbrush – I shall be writing more on the topic of appropriate disciplinary implements later) – to your daughter’s behind each and every time she is naughty. In this way negative behavior and attitude can be turned around and a good foundation can be laid for an ongoing program of continuous improvement. After the type of spanking is determined, I will tell you where you are going to be spanked – like over my knee, or over the couch or over the bed.